I was chatting with a 1-5 Army wife recently. I said I remember my dad leaving for war, twice. I remember the separation, the nightly prayers, the impatient wait for letters and the joy when one would arrive.
But I didn’t remember any homecomings.
The wife said that it’s the painful memories that seem to stick with us.
I thought about it. No, that can’t be right. I would remember a homecoming.
So I called my dad.
Hey, Dad, was there a homecoming celebration when you returned?
Cheryl, Vietnam was unpopular.
I know, I know, Dad. I know the community wasn’t supportive. I mean on the military base. Was there a band? And “welcome home daddy” signs? Cheering? Flags waving?
No, Cheryl.
No bands. Nothing. Nothing.
Not even at the base?
Nothing.
What did you do?
I’d have to think about it. The second tour I probably flew into Fort Lewis. Mom was waiting. I went home.
And I went back to duty.
Apr 13, 2012 @ 03:35:55
times sure have changed.
Apr 13, 2012 @ 03:53:57
And I’m glad times have changed.
Apr 13, 2012 @ 20:24:36
God bless your dad. Vietnam was unpopular and the treatment of soldiers, horrible. I’m old enough to remember and I’m cheering for your dad right now!
Apr 13, 2012 @ 22:45:58
Thank you. It is heartbreaking to think that they received no welcome home from the country or the military. My dad is happy to see today’s soldiers get welcomed home.
Apr 14, 2012 @ 12:14:31
I’m cheering for you too.WELCOME HOME!!!!!!!!!!!!. Late but never too late, and thank you for your services.
Apr 14, 2012 @ 07:45:07
Please pass along our profound thanks to your father for his service. You, your mom and the rest of your family also deserve our thanks. In no way will we ever be able to repay the debt owed to all of you…nor will we be able to fully make up for the wrongs done–the lack of gratitude and honor–shown to service members returning from VietNam. Very sad.
Hopefully, in some small measure at least, the way we treat our troops now will make a difference and set a good example for future generations.
Thank you for sharing your story with us here.
Apr 14, 2012 @ 19:34:49
Thank you. I do think my father is gratified to see today’s soldiers receive the honor and welcome home they have earned for their service.